MUST READ FOR MEN: Make your first dates successful. Top tips for 2020

Here are some tips from me, how to improve your dating experience with women you like:

Your behavior:

• Stop worrying about your date! Easy to say)) Imagine that your date is not important, you are going just to have a pleasant time with a girl. Nothing more! Maybe you will not like her!
• Don’t be too tiresome, your input and hers should be almost the same in the relationship. Use your initiative, but not always. Text her, but not every hour.
• Don’t behave needily and avoid showing her that you are interested in her. But at the same time, don’t play macho or alpha male. Let her know that you like her and invite her for the second date at the end of the first one.
• Be a complete personality with your interests, goals, friends, and preferences. Show her that you have hobbies and relationships is not a goal of your life.
• Don’t hurry up things, make pauses between dates like 2–3 days. Disappear from time to time. Don’t be 24/7 available for her.
• If you like her as a person and your goal is not ONS only than communicate more and use your hands less in the begging. Try to become her friend.
• When you are with her — spend time with her, not with your phone. Show that she and your date is important.
• Smile and be positive. Take things easy!

Your appearance:

• Please dress nicely, put on clean and appropriate clothes, refresh your shoes. Try to create your style; find out what clothes will complement your personality the best way.
• Keep your eyebrows and nose/ear hair in order. Nails too! When it’s out of order, you have a look of crazy grandpa. Ask your barber to help you. Details matter! Usually, women are more attentive than men — remember it.
• Your teeth and breath! It’s very, very important! It’s something that can kill your romance in the beginning! Visit a dentist and repair your teeth, make your smile attractive.
• Hygiene. Don’t forget about it when you go for a date. Choose neutral and fresh perfume, but do not overuse it.
• Be active, keep fit, and go to the gym regularly. She is not your mom to accept you as you are. She will not tell you this maybe, so I will tell you: we, girls, love sporty men. Yes, the ones from the ads… so try to look close somehow to such kind of handsome guys.

Your acts:

• Surprise her with flowers, chocolate, or some other little gifts. Make her feel special.
• Ask her what type of men she prefers, what character traits she can’t stand.
• Don’t try to control her.
• The perfect date will be if together you try some activities or sport. Make her discover something new with you!
• Be a gentleman. Show her that you care about her as a man. Be protective.
• Offer her your help with something. It will give you many bonuses!

Your words:

• Be a master of your words, and keep your promises. (that works so much!!) If you promised to call her on Tuesday, then call on Tuesday. This way, you will gain her trust faster.
• Don’t use jargon that you usually use with guys. It will not impress her. Your way of talking should be calm and intelligent with some adequate humor. Of course, please, don’t use bad words.
• Please don’t tell her your long boring stories. If you don’t know what to talk about, ask something about her.
• Make her speak more about herself, ask her questions. Try to be a big ear and remember all details (this will be helpful in the future). This way she will like you and will think that you are an interesting interlocutor.

Be confident, honest, and open. And just be yourself. If it’s your girl, she will be yours! If your girl is Russian or Ukrainian, read more HERE.

Good luck with dating!

P.S. Feel free to share your dating experience with me!