Elena Miro
3 min readJun 18, 2020

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My 10 laws of womanhood

Each person has feminine and masculine parts inside. I’m so happy to be born as a woman and celebrate my femininity.

The basics of femininity

Here is how I embrace my femininity:

  1. Be positive and optimistic. The positive approach is essential, I think. It will put a smile on your face to make you more beautiful and attractive. It will make you take your life easy and notice good things, even in bad situations. Optimists always have good people around them and achieve their goals faster, as they are concentrated on good. Needless to say, that woman with a smile makes men’s hearts melt 😌
  2. Love and accept yourself. If you love yourself, you give a message to others that you deserve love and to be loved. Loving yourself doesn’t mean being selfish. Loving yourself means taking care of yourself, your interests, and your borders. You are never as lonely as you have YOU. Accept and love yourself when you are sad, lazy, overwhelmed, or maybe with extra kilos.
  3. Embrace your femininity. You were born a woman. It’s a miracle to be a woman. You can wear dresses, accessories, make changes with your style, color your nails, hair, to cry, to be weak and naive… You can be different every day and so unique! Celebrate and embrace your femininity every day, love being a woman, and enjoy it. If you look around, a lot of things were created for women. The woman is not the only appearance. A woman is a kind and loving heart. Womanhood is acceptance, agility, and softness. Femininity is wisdom, calmness, and mercy. A woman is empathy and love. You can say that all this makes women weak, but water can change and move the stone.
  4. Enjoy your solitude. Take time for yourself and just be yourself for 100%. Spend time with the closest person, you. Try to find at least 1 hour per day for you and do the things you want; all the world will wait. This will help to restore your level of energy.
  5. Enhance yourself. Learn and try something new every day. Enjoy and discover this wonderful world; never stop doing it! Achieve your goals, read books, and learn new things. Make yourself a better day by day. Work on your body and your mind. We all have an image of a perfect person or woman in our heads. So why don’t you become this woman?
  6. Give and receive. Usually, women are kind-hearted, we love to help and care. We are used to giving as it is our nature. We readily help and give, but feel unconfident to receive presents or care. Let other people ( especially men) take care of you and provide things for you. You deserve love, so let others love you ❤️
  7. Take care of your health and your appearance. Hygiene is very important for every woman. Womanhood is something fresh and clean for me. We take care of our appearance, not for men. We do it for ourselves. I want to love the reflection I see in the mirror; that’s why I take care of myself. I take care of myself because I love myself and want to be healthy.
  8. Respect, trust, and love men. Like day and night, like black and white, we are feminine as they are masculine. I’m happy that we have men in our world. We are equal, but we are so different, like yin and yang. This world is so great with men. They inspire and love us, help and support us, tolerate, and worship us. They change us and change themselves for us. From the bottom of my heart, I love men, and I’m grateful for everything they do for all women. Somebody will say: they humiliate and oppress us, devastate and disrespect us. But I think it’s a great lesson about being stronger and smarter. Even this way, through tears, they make us better and stronger.
  9. Never give up. Life is an incredible journey. Love and enjoy your life. Even in the blackest and darkest moments, hug your little inner girl and tell her that tomorrow is a new unique day. Don’t be afraid of new life challenges.
  10. Trust the Universe. Maybe you don’t believe, but you can trust the Universe as the universe takes care of you and loves you for who you are ❤️

To all wonderful and unique women with LOVE

Photocredit: me

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Elena Miro
Elena Miro

Written by Elena Miro

Certified Psychotherapist, Relationship coach and Author. Ukrainian

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